Learning When to Follow and When to Lead: Becoming the Words We Speak For most of my life, I found myself leading. Not because I sought authority. Not because I wanted power. It simply seemed to happen. As a child, I wasn’t afraid to speak up. I challenged bullies. I questioned authority. I resisted the status quo. I can still remember my granny encouraging me to join a debate team even though our school didn’t have one. She saw something in me that I would not fully understand until much later: a willingness to explore perspectives and help others see…