The Cost Worth Paying Participation, Purification, and the Life We Truly Desire It was once said that if you are unwilling to downgrade your life for a few years to live the life you desire to live, then perhaps you care too much about how others see you. There is wisdom in that statement. Many people dream of a different life. Fewer are willing to release the comforts, identities, habits, expectations, and securities that keep them attached to the life they already know. Yet as I reflected on this idea, I realized there is another layer. The willingness to change…